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SUNSHINE RICHARDS
JOURNEY OF
HOPE...
from violence to healing™
JOURNEY
PARTICIPANT
VIRGINIA
Sunshine helped organize the Virginia
Journey
" After
my brother's death, many family members did not agree with my opposition to
the death penalty and thought I could not have loved my brother very much if I
didn't want revenge. This hurt me badly, because my brother and I were very
close. Sometimes I think family members like me who don't want the death
penalty are considered 'bad victims'. 'good victims' are the ones who want
revenge. They are treated with respect because they are seeking the 'ultimate
punishment'. The night Robert Alton Harris was executed in California, the
prison warden treated the victims' family members to a huge banquet and made a
celebration out of it. I will never be a 'good victim' because I will never
understand the kind of thinking that would celebrate a killing."
SUNSHINE
RICHARDS
LOVINGSTON, VIRGINIA
PROFILE:
Sunshine Richards lost her brother, Jimbo Richards, in 1983. He was
discovered dead from a shotgun wound the day after Christmas. After his
death, Sunshine knew Jimbo would not have wanted her to seek revenge.
"He was a wonderful person, and to me it is much more healing to
remember him in the best light and be able to pass my memories of him on to
my kids. Maybe it's selfish, but I want my brother's memory to be an upbeat
one. His last moments were very violent – we got the gruesome details. I
refuse to hold him in my memory like that." In recent years, Sunshine
has been active in Virginians for Alternatives to the Death Penalty. She
served as spiritual advisor to Larry Stout, a man with a borderline IQ who
was executed in Virginia in 1996.
Reprinted with
permission from "Not In Our Name: Murder Victims Families Speak Out
Against the Death Penalty," a publication of Murder Victims Families
For Reconciliation,
Barbara Hood & Rachel King, Editors. MVFR
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